The Importance Of a Good Relationship

The importance of a relationship is communication, trust, and making a sacrifice. It is not an 80-20% relationship. One partner should not pour into the relationship their heart and soul if the other person does not do the same. If there is no trust, then there is nothing but a shell of a relationship. No one person should be a fool for their partner. Loving someone should not be complicated. It should be a free flowing emotional…
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Changing your Life For The Better

Do you find yourself about to become successful in your own job or a project and something happens to sabotage your success? What about that job promotion that you always wanted come up and you don’t apply for it? Are we afraid of our own success? We have many opportunities that cross our lap everyday and we don’t take them. This is a problem. Take a chance on yourself. Open up that business you have…
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My Life In A Nutshell

There are so many choices that one can make in this lifetime. You can choose a road that is easily traveled or one with many bumps and turns. When we encounter a bump in the road, do we hit it such speed or do we slowly go over it. The choice is yours. To be courageous and brave. To be safe rather than sorry or to ride the waves by the seat of your pants.…
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Are you Living or are you simply existing

There are individuals that live their life to the fullest. They travel the world, are optimistic and meeting people and experiencing life to the fullest, then there are individuals that only exist. They are on a routine every day and it is a consistent merry-go-round to nowhere. Where do you stand? Are you in a loveless relationship and pretend you are happy when you are dying inside? Do you continue to acquire materialistic items yet…
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My Life at RMS Counseling Group

I am a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and will help you discover your true potential. I work with The LGBTQ community and Heterosexual Community. My areas of expertise are: Anxiety, Depression, Social Anxiety, Self-Esteem issues, Mental Illness, Agoraphobia, Transgender Transition, Anger Management, Common fears, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Sexual Disorders, NPD, HPD, All levels of Abuse, resources for other issues, and other disorders. My objective is to get individuals on the right track…
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My Path in This World

This site is for individuals who are in the LGBTQIA Community and the Heterosexual Community who are seeking help in obtaining counseling for issues in their life. I focus on building self-esteem, mending relationships with families that may be estranged from their loved ones due to not understanding one’s life choices andthe right to be who they are. I am a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist that deals in a wide array of issues…
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My Life at RMS Counseling Group

My name is Chresencia Alicea. I am a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and will help you discover your true potential. I work with The LGBTQ community and Heterosexual Community. My areas of expertise are: Anxiety, Depression, Social Anxiety, Self-Esteem issues, Mental Illness, Agoraphobia, Transgender Transition, Anger Management, Common fears, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Sexual Disorders, NPD, HPD, All levels of Abuse, resources for other issues, and other disorders. I am currently working for…
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The New Age Perspective

Has anyone noticed that times are changing? The perspective of today is not of what it was yesterday. We look at the world from rose-colored glasses only to find that the world has not only changed, but it has also evolved into a new language, perspective that we have never seen before. Individuals are expressing who they are in a more defining manner. Labels or allowing one not to be labeled is the in thing.…
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A Life Worth Living

Please take a suicide attempt seriously no matter if the person has or has not tried it before. The life you save is important, precious, and worthwhile. We all go through challenges in our lives. Start a safe place haven for those you feel are so depressed that there is a chance that person may take their life. Whether it is a friend, family member, or a stranger, please reach out and save a life today



The Love Of A Real Man

We focus on their eyes and what beautiful ones they are. We focus on their physique and how built they are. We focus on the car they have and us driving in it. We focus on his fat wallet and how much money he will spend on me. Do these things really matter when it comes to the man of your dreams? What about his inner soul. What about the long talks that you share.…
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The Importance of a Good Relationship

The importance of a relationship is communication, trust, and making a sacrifice. It is not an 80-20% relationship. One partner should not pour into the relationship their heart and soul if the other person does not do the same. If there is no trust, then there is nothing but a shell of a relationship. No one person should be a fool for their partner. Loving someone should not be complicated. It should be a free flowing emotional…
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I Won’t Beg You To Love Me

I won’t beg you to love me, I won’t beg you to trust me, I won’t beg you to stay with me I won’t beg you to marry me, Because I know you don’t complete me You don’t define me, You won’t control me, You won’t disrespect me, You won’t berate me, My love intertwines my soul and protects me, My love is strong enough to conquer the ones that betrays me, I have been…
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On The Edge

What are the warning signs of a person that is suicidal? Do you feel that they are serious or are only venting their emotions. When we hear another person’s plight, we need to try and understand them. This is critical. IT is a cry for help. We may be in that same situation one day. Communicating with our loved one or friend can be a link to them redirecting their emotions of self hatred to…
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Life Is So Short, Why Waste It On Hate

We are here on this earth for only a moment in time. It is hard enough to live in this world full of hate and ignorance. Each one of us may have a pet peeve that causes us to react in a negative manner. Make sure you understand why you feel that way. There are people on this earth that live for judging and hating others. I find this to be very sad. We are…
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Defining a New You

Beauty defines the soul in ways that no one can imagine. Feeling down? Just add a little lipstick and your face just went up 10 points in value. Take those extra moments to enhance your outer beauty. A little eyeshadow, blush and a spritz of perfume makes such a lovely difference. Check out my new website. These beauty products are just for you! https://www.youniqueproducts.com/chresenciaalicea


Blended Relationships

How do blended families survive in their daily living. A father with two children and a mother with two children in which the couple is in love completely. The children have mixed emotions over the union of their parents. When their family is in sync and everyone is happy, it is wonderful. But, when this couple is in turmoil, it is bad. The children miss their maternal and paternal parents. They sometimes act out in…
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Dedicated to Those In Need By Tara Gonzalez

This is from my niece Tara Gonzalez–To WOMEN FROM ME. I was talking to a friend about a friend that was in am an abusive relationship. Well… I’ve been there. When it gets to the point that the person hits you the respect is gone. There is nothing left. Let it go out of your head that he will change. I remember my arm was hurt so badly I couldn’t move it. That wasn’t enough…
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Can A Blended Family Work

How do blended families survive in their daily living. A father with four children and a mother with three children in which the couple is in love complete. The children have mixed emotions over the union of their parents. When their family is in sync and everyone is happy, it is wonderful. But, when this couple is in turmoil, it is bad. The children miss their maternal and paternal parents. They sometimes act out in…
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A Purposeful Way of Living

How do you define your active role in this life we live. Do you choose to live it going down a path without purpose or do you choose to make a difference in this world. Free will is a choice and many of us do not see their lives as .purposeful. Many of us are responsible for other lives such as being a parent or guardian. Do you teach them how to love and respect…
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The Spirit of A Child

Do you remember your childhood and how carefree you were? Your imagination took you to places that were beyond any dream that you ever had. The innocence in your eyes as you discovered new things. This was a magical time full of new and exciting adventures. You could ride your bike carefree through the park, collect insects in jars, and even watch your favorite cartoons. All these memories stop as soon as we grow up.…
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Learning to Love after a Loss

When we lose someone in our lives, how do we move on? The emotional ties to that special person, do they go away or remain? We miss them dearly, and their memories remain, but how do we deal with these feelings? One of my students wanted to express her feelings of losing her grandfather and aunt. It was very sad for her and she misses them to this very day. When a person loses someone…
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The Love That We Share with Others

How does one share love with others. Do you fee; the need to console someone when they are at their lowest point? Do you embrace them in their time of need? What does it take for someone to show love toward others. Are there times that you feel that a person may not deserve the love you give? Love does not cost a thing.It s free to give to the ones we love. Loving others…
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Embracing The LGBTQ Community

The world of The LGBTQ Comunity is a world of amazing people that work, attend school, and live life just like anyone else. Their existence is one of being no different than anyone in the heterosexual community. There will always be people that may not understand individuals that live, love, and laugh who belong to the LGBTQ population and that is sad because they are people just like anyone else that exists in this world.…
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Focus on a New You with Younique – https://www.youniqueproducts.com/chresenciaalicea

The Transformation of a New You We are constantly traveling down a road of reinvention. Gaining weight, losing weight, a change in hair color, a new perfume. All of these changes to make us feel better, and uplift our mood are wonderful. We look back over the years and smile at our past transformations. Look at our journey in life as traveling down this wonderful road of life. The hills we have traveled that we…
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Imagery – A Positive Personification of one’s self

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How does one describe your personal Imagery? When you see yourself through “The Looking Glass”, what do you see? The mind, body, and soul are all connected to a lineage that is unique as well as Eclectic. We are all different shapes, sizes, and colors. There may be some similarities to other beings, but that is very slight. In the realm of things, one should be the…



My Bio

Commitment, dedication, imagination and the desire to excel have always been Chresencia’s strong points. She obtained a Masters degree in Human Resources. Certifications in Six Sigma, Project Management and Business Intelligence through Villanova, The University of Notre Dame, and The University of San Francisco. Chresencia is presently working on a double doctorate in Human Services and Counseling at Capella and Walden University. Chresencia is a member of the American Psychological Association, The National Society of…
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Embracing Yourself to Find True Love

Why should you feel comfortable in your own skin? Because You have to love yourself in order to Love others. The importance of embracing yourself is the first step to love. There is no place for loving others in your earth until you love yourself first. In life, we may put others first before ourselves, but how can this be? Look in the mirror and wrap your arms around yourself. Close your eyes and say…
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